If you reply to a PM notification email - it comes to ME AND NOT the person intended. Its just a notification sent out by the forum software from my email address! Says this at the bottom,
PLEASE DO NOT REPLY DIRECTLY TO THIS EMAIL!
I had to remove the preview text on the last version of the board, please don't make me remove it again.
Second if you have an automated message handler please remove that, or use an email address for vfrd that does not use an automated message reply!