I stumbled on an aftermarket equivalent of the Honda 38501-GN2-014 relay (aka incorrectly Starter Relay). It is the DB Electrical 240-54035, and a lot cheaper than the OEM....... I know nothing about them or quality, but you could use them in a non-critical spot like headlight relays if you wanted to swap in for a fuel cut or engine stop relay.......
Do a Google search for an appropriate source........