Excellent overall review.
A few comments:
1. VFR 6th gen had 4-way flashers from about 04 onward, if I am not mistaken (mine was an 03 and did not have them)
2. If the TC kicks on, the TC light will come on. If it does come on, you can't miss it.
3. The mirror "stylization" actually keeps some sun from bouncing back at you from behind your shoulder, late in the day.
4. Somewhat counter intuitively, increasing rear preload (say, 2-3 full turns) has dramatically settled my bike over high-frequency bumps. YMMV.
5. The '14 wants to stand up in mid-curve braking compared to the 6th gen. Solution is to apply a bit (only a little) of rear brake at the same time as the front.
6. 20-foot turn radius? Only if duck-footing. I can turn mine in about 11-12 feet on a clean surface with standard counterbalancing/clutch slipping.
7. The pannier reflectors normally come uninstalled. Your dealer must have put them on.
8. The Dunlop 222's are grippy enough, but may be shagged by around 3000 miles depending on where and how you ride.
9. RE: Your reference to 143 mph top speed, and how your old bike was 5 mph faster, doesn't mention altitude. The 143 was recorded at 8300', costing something on the order of 15 HP.
10. The only reference I have found to bent wheels was on this site and seems to have "been resolved". It's pretty clearly not an issue or we would have see a slew of these by now.
11. Like you, I have yet to touch a peg feeler, but I have certainly used all of my rear tire.